The Five Love Languages

I recently stumbled on this book , because my friend's friend got engaged and she wanted to get her friend a meaningful gift. A book is a great gift because a little knowledge on any given topic , is by no means a dangerous thing. She bought the 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

The book offers the secret to Love that Lasts , in the form of five simple themes:

1. Words of Affirmation.

2. Quality Time.

3. Gifts.

4. Acts of Service.

5. Physical Touch.

This week on Chariot of Love we have been tackling a two part series: 10 Things Men Hate about Women and 10 Things Women Hate about Men.  Hate is a strong word especially used in the arena of relationships but the reason we did this is to demystify those little myths that we have towards each other. The feedback from the Facebook page is proof enough.

Here are some of the interesting comments on the topic:

•  Charity Wambui mwanamke kichwa "marenge'

     Like · Reply · 1 · 10 May at 12:59
• Shelmith Fredrick Utq Minstry Dat bad eye a man gives ukiambiwa ua smart n u left ua house wit him n hakukwambia

  Like · Reply · 1 · 10 May at 12:42
•           Naomi Njeri women hates nagging men

         Like · Reply · 1 · 8 May at 08:24
•      Shelmith Fredrick Utq Minstry Men hate nagging wives,women hate men who dnt give them                          attention,men who dnt compliment them,men who dnt listen to them

       Like · Reply · 10 May at 12:

  • Newton Wairimu Keinter 1 i het a cheting woman.2 i het a woman hu is after my mony.3 i het a dirty woman ananuka mdomo.4 i het a woman whu is cheap to get........

    Like · Reply · 1 · 9 May at 22:22
  • Shelmith Fredrick Utq Minstry Men hate one thng sijawai skia ingine I hear them say they hate a nagging wife kuna zingne mnisaidie kujua plz hahaha

    Like · Reply · 10 May at 12:58
  • Shelmith Fredrick Utq Minstry Niko kwa wanaume bado story za he wants u to be like his mother for heavens sake huwes mek u hv a difrent personality n dnt try fake it umplease cz no mata wat u do utakuwa disapointed,tabia ya kwenda na boys out yet hataki wife awe na social life dats selfish,tabia ya kusema a ladies place is in the kitchen nikama yeye akipikisaidia ni dhambi thot God created eve as a helper not a slave,tabia ya kujifanya kusahau kila kitu sio bday,sio anniversary aaaiii hata ka uko busy boss wen u value smthng u dnt forget such thngs,tabia ya kuja kwa hao n its like u dnt exist to ua kids they r strangers to u n ua strangers to them cz u nva even hav time si uko kwa gazeti ama u brot kazi home as if ofy was full kwa meza hungemalizia huko ama uiweke kando hav tym wit ua family unaweza extend kazi yako later so sijasema mtu akeshe ofy peleka kazi home bt manage ua tym balance ua thngs familia ipate nafasi kukujua n uwajue pia

    Like · Reply · 10 May at 12:57
  • Shelmith Fredrick Utq Minstry In men women hate mwaume akiangalia dame mwngne wit wanting eyes hata akiwa hawana adabu hiyo sector by the way,unaweza sema kitu impite cz mind imebebwa na skirt,dress,tyts imepita story ya kurusha sock anywea,kutouliza opinion wen making a family decision,wen he fakes kindness anasambaza pesa huko nje kufurahisha watu them familia inalala njaa,tabia ya kufika kwa hao anasoma gazeti hata huwa hajui the changes in the house cz hana hizo,tabia ya kwambia dame amchague ama achague kazi seriously,tabia ya kukazia wife to look good ati kwani anataka kuplease nani akiwa sexy yet dame akipita wanamfuata na macho

  
  

This book offers a two way perspective between a man and a woman and what will enable them to have a successful marriage or relationship. 

Let men and women not forget what made them love each other in the first place. 

Chariot of Love.